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            <title>A Foretaste of Fascism</title>
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            <description>    &lt;p&gt;Canada has been making a splash in conservative circles lately.&amp;#160; The reason?&amp;#160; They seem to be systematically destroying the right to freedom of expression up there.&amp;#160; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://article.nationalreview.com/?q=NTQ4OTJlYzkzNjQ0YzFlOTNkYWU2ZmExZDRiNjlkNTM=&quot;&gt;First came the news of Mark Steyn&lt;/a&gt;, author of the book &lt;em&gt;America Alone,&lt;/em&gt; of which I have blogged.&amp;#160; An excerpt from this book was published in the Canadian magazine &lt;em&gt;Maclean&amp;#39;s&lt;/em&gt; some time ago, making essentially the same point as the book:&amp;#160; that demographic trends in the West are pointing towards an imminent Muslim majority and the traditional European cultures may be forced to accomodate radical Muslims.&amp;#160; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Wouldn&amp;#39;t you know it, a Muslim group was offended by this.&amp;#160; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So Steyn was hauled before what I can only classify as the corporeal embodiment of&amp;#160;a liberal wet dream:&amp;#160; a government sponsored Human Rights Tribunal.&amp;#160; This body, while not possessing the actual faculties of a court of law, is authorized to arbitrate complaints of discrimination and &amp;quot;hate.&amp;quot;&amp;#160; With that authority comes the power to fine &amp;quot;offenders&amp;quot; and award damages to &amp;quot;victims.&amp;quot;&amp;#160; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Well, I&amp;#39;m not here to write about Muslim relations today, because these Canadians look to be setting up an attack on Christianity itself.&amp;#160; &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;NEWS: Canada Orders Pastor to Renounce His Faith&lt;br /&gt;Catholic Exchange&lt;br /&gt;Pete Vere&lt;br /&gt;June 9, 2008 &lt;br /&gt;In a decision that foreshadows the possible fate of Fr. Alphonse de Valk, Canada&amp;#39;s leading pro-life voice among Catholic clergy, the Alberta Human Rights Tribunal has forbidden evangelical pastor Stephen Boisson from expressing his moral opposition to homosexuality. The tribunal also ordered Boisson to pay $5,000 &amp;quot;damages for pain and suffering&amp;quot; and apologize to the &amp;quot;human rights&amp;quot; activist who filed the complaint. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;You&amp;#39;ll forgive the obvious bias of the writer, as this is a Catholic publication.&amp;#160; Let&amp;#39;s continue:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;The complaint stems from Canada&amp;#39;s debate leading up to state legislation recognizing so-called same-sex marriage. In 2002, the pastor wrote a letter to the editor of his local newspaper in which he denounced the homosexual agenda as &amp;quot;wicked&amp;quot; and stated that: &amp;quot;Children as young as five and six years of age are being subjected to psychologically and physiologically damaging pro-homosexual literature and guidance in the public school system; all under the fraudulent guise of equal rights.&amp;quot; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;The activist subsequently filed a complaint with the Alberta Human Rights Commission -- a quasi-judicial body that investigates alleged discrimination within the Canadian province. The government tribunal published &lt;a href=&quot;http://albertahumanrights.ab.ca/Lund_Darren_Remedy053008.pdf&quot;&gt;its decision &lt;/a&gt;on May 30.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Interesting.&amp;#160; That&amp;#39;s pretty standard stuff here in America.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;While agreeing that Boisson&amp;#39;s letter was not a criminal act, the government tribunal nevertheless ordered the Christian pastor to &amp;quot;cease publishing in newspapers, by email, on the radio, in public speeches, or on the internet, in future, disparaging remarks about gays and homosexuals.&amp;quot; Moreover, the tribunal&amp;#39;s decision &amp;quot;prohibited [Boisson] from making disparaging remarks in the future&amp;quot; about the activist who filed the complaint and witnesses who supported the complaint. Many of Canada&amp;#39;s religious leaders and civil libertarians have expressed concern that the government&amp;#39;s human rights tribunals are interpreting any criticism of homosexual activism as &amp;#39;disparaging&amp;#39;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Not criminal?&amp;#160; Then why all the hubbub, bub?&amp;#160; Why muzzle a religious figure?&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;The tribunal also ordered Boisson to provide the complainant with a written apology for his letter to the editor. This last requirement threatens civil liberties in Canada, said Ezra Levant, a Jewish-Canadian author and lawyer. Levant, himself the target of an Alberta Human Rights Commission investigation, is facing the possibility the state may order him to apologize as well. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Never mind the $5,000 he was ordered to pay, they are going to force him to apologize as well?&amp;#160; So...&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;&amp;quot;Ed Stelmach&amp;#39;s &amp;#39;conservative&amp;#39; government now believes that if it can&amp;#39;t convince a Christian pastor that he&amp;#39;s wrong, it will just order him to condemn himself?&amp;quot; Levant wrote on his blog. &amp;quot;Other than tribunals in Stalin&amp;#39;s Soviet Union and Mao&amp;#39;s China, where is this Orwellian &amp;#39;order&amp;#39; considered to be justice?&amp;quot; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;&amp;quot;This is like a Third World jail-house confession -- where accused criminals are forced to sign false statements of guilt,&amp;quot; Levant wrote. &amp;quot;We don&amp;#39;t even &amp;#39;order&amp;#39; murderers to apologize to their victims&amp;#39; families. Because we know that a forced apology is meaningless. But not if your point is to degrade Christian pastors.&amp;quot; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;Welcome to the liberal end game.&amp;#160; This is what they want, this is why divisions run so deep.&amp;#160; A liberal used to be someone who challenged conventions without undermining the foundations of good government.&amp;#160; Our Founding Fathers were all liberals of a sort.&amp;#160; But today&amp;#39;s liberal is more Mussolini than&amp;#160;Madison.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot;&gt;In essence, the Alberta Human Rights Tribunal is ordering to the minister to renounce his Christian faith, since his opposition to homosexuality is based upon the Judeo-Christian Bible. The case against Pastor Boisson has been watched closely by practicing Catholics in the country, especially as news spreads about the current Canadian Human Rights Commission investigation into Fr. de Valk reported on in this space last Wednesday. The Basilian priest and publisher of Catholic Insight magazine stands accused of promoting &amp;quot;extreme hatred and contempt&amp;quot; against homosexuals for having publicly defended the Church&amp;#39;s traditional definition of marriage. Some of the allegedly hateful statements are quotations from the Bible and the Catechism of the Catholic Church, Fr. de Valk told Catholic Exchange. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px&quot;&gt;Now, it&amp;#39;s personal.&amp;#160; &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px&quot;&gt;Although Catholic moral teaching is generally more nuanced in its criticism of homosexuality, evangelicals and fundamentalist Protestants often appear to be used as test cases for the government commissions before targeting Catholics. Thus many Catholics fear the Canadian Human Rights Tribunal will attempt to use the Boisson case to muzzle Fr. de Valk from expressing the Church&amp;#39;s traditional moral teaching, delivering a further blow to religious liberty and freedom of conscience in Canada.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px&quot;&gt;See, the real threat to these fascist dregs is a strong faith, grounded in reason.&amp;#160; Evangelicals are, I&amp;#39;m sorry to say, all too often hampered by their own zeal.&amp;#160; They emphasize the emotional relationship aspect of the faith, and allow that to color their interactions with a hostile world.&amp;#160; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px&quot;&gt;But here&amp;#39;s the deal folks.&amp;#160; They come after the Church, first.&amp;#160; Then they come after the people who don&amp;#39;t vote their way.&amp;#160; Then they come after their own people.&amp;#160; That&amp;#39;s how it worked all through the 20th century, and it seems that Canada is continuing the trend..&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p style=&quot;clear:both;&quot;&gt; 
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            <title>News &amp; Politics QotW: The Taxman</title>
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            <description>    &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;As the April 15th tax filing deadline looms, many gay couples are facing higher tax bills because they do not get the federal tax benefits that accompany marriage. The same is true for heterosexual couples who chose not to get married. Do you think this is fair? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;
Of course it&amp;#39;s fair.&amp;#160; Marriage is a child-bearing union of two people who commit to raise up more little taxpayers.&amp;#160; Or, from another perspective, it is a sacramental union of two souls before God, geared towards the production of more lives.&amp;#160; The government has a vested interest in promoting stable taxpaying individuals, and is well within its rights to offer tax benefits to married people.&amp;#160; God has a vested interest in the human race, and for whatever reason has decided we are worth the effort to love.&amp;#160; &lt;br /&gt;In the case of gay couples there is no moral or biological ability to be married as both participants are the same sex.&amp;#160; This is just a fundamental concept here, but marriage produces children and homosexuals cannot reproduce unless they perform extreme measures to do so.&amp;#160; Marriage, true marriage, is closed to them.&amp;#160; Imitations can and have been made, but they lack the essential aspects of true marriage.&lt;br /&gt;In the case of unwed couples, there is no real commitment to hold them together should things get tough.&amp;#160; Bill wants to continue playing guitar at college parties, Jane wants to settle down.&amp;#160; Poof, the relationship is over.&amp;#160; Any kids get shuttled between the parents, or not, and grow up completely unaware of the benefits of a traditional family system.&amp;#160; This not only damages children, causing increased juvenile delinquency and increasing the likelihood that they never have a successful marriage, but it also damages the two adults.&amp;#160; Bitter feelings are the norm, and that is never good.&amp;#160; The good news is that if they live together long enough they become common-law spouses.&amp;#160; Why is that?&amp;#160; Because the state recognizes that marriage is between a man, a woman, and God...perhaps?&amp;#160; I don&amp;#39;t know the tax benefits of being a common-law spouse, but all you people living together better watch out!&lt;br /&gt;Homosexuals and unwed couples should not be afforded the benefits of marriage, because marriage is more than just a legal status.&amp;#160; It&amp;#39;s a moral action, a lifelong commitment.&amp;#160; It&amp;#39;s more than the state can offer us, and people lose sight of that.&lt;br /&gt;From a practical standpoint, if the benefits of marriage were available to basically anybody regardless of their marital status they would simply lower the tax benefits of marriage.&amp;#160; Get real, folks.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p style=&quot;clear:both;&quot;&gt; 
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            <title>Liberals Are Rational and Compassionate.</title>
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            <description>    &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Scio&amp;#39;s Comments in red.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;georgia md&quot; id=&quot;bodytext&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;headlines&quot;&gt;
                     &lt;h1&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sfgate.com/columnists/morford/&quot;&gt;Bush Death Watch: Countdown!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
                     &lt;h2&gt;It&amp;#39;s official: Less than one year until history slaps Dubya to the curb. Can you feel the tingle?&lt;/h2&gt;
                     
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    &lt;p class=&quot;byline&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;mailto:mmorford@sfgate.com&quot;&gt;By Mark Morford, SF Gate Columnist&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
    &lt;p class=&quot;date&quot;&gt;Friday, November 16, 2007&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;georgia md&quot; id=&quot;bodytext&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;dropcap&quot;&gt;I&lt;/span&gt;t&amp;#39;s
just that kind of feeling, that sense of hesitant, embryonic optimism,
the sense that says, oh my God, we as a culture and a smash-mouthed,
war-hammered society really &lt;em&gt;are&lt;/em&gt; fast approaching something
possibly, potentially, heart-achingly new and different and — because
it cannot get any worse — just a little bit better.
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;georgia md&quot; id=&quot;bodytext&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here is my suggestion: Mark your calendars, set your watch,
program a celebratory ringtone well in advance, because the countdown
has officially begun. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It is now less than one calendar year until the next
presidential election. It is less than one year until the country
finally takes a deep breath and flexes its atrophied muscles and opens
its bloody, Cheney-punched &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(so that&amp;#39;s what we&amp;#39;re talking about?)&lt;/span&gt; mouth and lets it be known to the world, to
the universe, to its own numb and dejected soul just exactly how unwell
it has felt, how much pain has raked its heart&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (slightly overblown, I think)&lt;/span&gt;, lo, these past seven
(eight, by then) years, by ushering in an entirely new political era,
as we all exhale a massive sigh of long overdue relief that — praise
Jesus, Allah, Buddha and the devil all at once — the long national
nightmare of George W. Bush is finally over&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (One man responsible for all the nation&amp;#39;s ills...check)&lt;/span&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It is now safe to imagine. It is now becoming increasingly
easy to actually dare to think that, in less than one year&amp;#39;s time,
Dubya will begin packing his bags, jamming into his Spongebob duffel &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(cheap)&lt;/span&gt;
his map of the world coloring book &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(tired)&lt;/span&gt;, English-to-English translation
dictionaries &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(so 1999)&lt;/span&gt;, mangled pocket edition of the U.S. Constitution&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (trite)&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thomasnelson.com/consumer/product_detail.asp?dept_id=230000&amp;amp;sku=1400311101&amp;amp;TopLevel_id=230000&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Bibleman action figure set&lt;/a&gt; and a &amp;quot;Mission Accomplished!&amp;quot; sweatshirt, and heading off to face his
destiny as one of the bleakest, most morally repellent chapters &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(from a radical Muslim perspective, perhaps)&lt;/span&gt; in all
of American history. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You think maybe it&amp;#39;s too soon? Too early to let the tingle of
positivism and hope take hold? Far from it. After all, the signs of
decay and utter GOP desperation keep pouring in. For example, it has
now been officially recorded in history what everyone already knows:
Bush is nearly exactly as unpopular as Richard Nixon was at his lowest
point, and no president in history has had as long a streak at the
bottom of the job-approval rankings as Dubya &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(polls are nearly as reliable as a liberal&amp;#39;s commitment to strict constructivism)&lt;/span&gt;. Heckuva job, Bushie!
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What&amp;#39;s more, the glorious collapse of the evangelical Christian
right marches on apace, as Pat Robertson, now a dejected, lonely
widower after the death of secret boy-toy husband Jerry Falwell&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (see what I mean by compassionate?&amp;#160; Where&amp;#39;s the respect for an opponent that is necessary to political discourse in this country?)&lt;/span&gt;, has
officially endorsed pro-choice, pro-gay, thrice-married, massively
unbalanced moral pit bull Rudy Giuliani for president, which is a bit
like a militant vegan endorsing Hot Dog on a Stick for the title of
Lord of the Food Court&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (have to say that I think Pat did make a mistake on this one.&amp;#160; Better to endorse your values and then admit you have to compromise rather than compromise from the get go...plausible deniability?)&lt;/span&gt;. Desperate times indeed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But wait, it gets better. While it&amp;#39;s easy to focus on Shrub
and Cheney and to gleefully, achingly imagine their dreary march out of
office on that happy day &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(stop it!&amp;#160; grossly overwrought.)&lt;/span&gt;, it is also vital and heartwarming to note
that this time next year will also mark the demise of an entire army of
toxic leaders, federal department heads, gay-bashing&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (ah ha.)&lt;/span&gt; appointees and
misogynist directors of every stripe and scandal and spittle, a simply
huge array of right-wing Bushies who are still entrenched in all manner
of powerful federal bureaus and organizations and policy-making bodies.
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&amp;#39;s true. Despite how a &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.rollingstone.com/politics/story/12054520/the_10_worst_congressmen/1&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;huge hunk of hideous GOP policymakers&lt;/a&gt;
lost their seats &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(not quite 1994)&lt;/span&gt; during the last congressional election, plenty more
appointees are still around to poison the well. From Kevin Martin, the
lackey who oversees the FCC, to noxious Idahoan and rabid
anti-environmentalist &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(so this is a hate crime too I guess)&lt;/span&gt; Dick Kempthorne of the Department of the
Interior, to anti-choice Republican Mormon knucklehead &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Leavitt#Controversy&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;charity scammer&lt;/a&gt; and Department of Health and Human Services overseer Mike Leavitt, and on and on — in a year, all on their way out.

&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Oh, and one more deserves special attention. Because one year from now will also be the glorious political end of one &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thenation.com/doc/20050530/mcgarvey&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Dr. David W. Hager&lt;/a&gt;,
the rabid evangelical Christian gynecologist (I know, so wrong) who
currently advises the FDA on women&amp;#39;s health issues and who was largely
responsible for delaying the approval of Plan B &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(yay)&lt;/span&gt;, opposed RU-486&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (good)&lt;/span&gt;, is in
fact against all contraception&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (me too)&lt;/span&gt;, stem-cell research &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(probably only embryonic, jerk.&amp;#160; You know, the kind that doesn&amp;#39;t work?&amp;#160; Adult stem cell research is fine, and has shown results.)&lt;/span&gt;, premarital sex &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(bad for you, really it is.)&lt;/span&gt;, and
(quite naturally) women&amp;#39;s choice&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (Like the choice to sleep around and deal with the &amp;quot;natural&amp;quot; consequences)&lt;/span&gt;, and whose own ex-wife claims he
anally raped her, over and over again, in her sleep&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (the obvious question is, if she was asleep at the time how does she know it wasn&amp;#39;t just hemorrhoids?&lt;/span&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Intelligent women nationwide still shudder that this man is
allowed anywhere near a living vagina, much less permitted to touch and
probe and offer advice. But there is one noteworthy aspect to Hager; he
is the perfect incarnation of the Christian right&amp;#39;s view of women &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(sure, just like Hillary Clinton is the right&amp;#39;s view of the Antichrist...not so)&lt;/span&gt; as
subordinate, lesser-intelligent sluts who cannot control their own
bodies and therefore need men&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (husbands)&lt;/span&gt;, God &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(yes)&lt;/span&gt;, and the government &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(not if you&amp;#39;re a conservative...then you want the government to protect the right to worship and nothing else)&lt;/span&gt; to do it for
them. Hager is a deep shame to the male gender, and his return to the
private practice of ruining the sex lives of unfortunate women in
Kentucky cannot come soon enough.
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But why write this column now, so far in advance of Bush&amp;#39;s
limp-tailed departure? Simple enough: Because it will take a full year
to get ready. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It will take every month and every week and every single day
from the moment you read this until November 2008 to compile, to
gather, to list all the names and all the horrors and all the deeply
entrenched policies that are still clawing at the face of America &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(evocative.)&lt;/span&gt; as a
result of Bush&amp;#39;s reign &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(Oh, yeah, I forgot he was an Imperial President)&lt;/span&gt;, to fully get your mind around just how deep is
the disease and how widely it has spread, so we may begin to excise the
policies one by one like the malignant tumors they so very much are. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What, too strong? Not even close. Go read up on Hager, and get back to me.

&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ah, but perhaps you are one of the jaded ones, the
non-believers, that certain type of political bitterball who says, oh
please, what does it matter, they&amp;#39;re all criminals and cretins and
powermongers anyway, no matter which party or president they work for?
Get rid of BushCo and a new slew of cronies and cretins take their
place, and who can tell the difference?&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (What if you&amp;#39;re one of the political bitterballs who don&amp;#39;t live in San Francisco?)&lt;/span&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To which I say, well, yes. But also, no. Sure, the system is
corrupt and lopsided and full of backstabbing and backslapping and
backroom deal-making. So what? Has been since the first cavemen voted
to see who gets to run the mammoth hunt &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(at least he&amp;#39;s right about this)&lt;/span&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Truth is, it&amp;#39;s just far too easy to let the ennui wash over
and not give a damn, to lump all politics into a phlegmball of nasty
negativity and be done with it, thus entirely disregarding the
efficacious issues, the things that truly effect change and affect
lives and improve or degrade the health of the planet. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/gate/a/2007/11/14/notes111407.DTL&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Outrage fatigue&lt;/a&gt;
is simply unacceptable. Intellectual apathy is the refuge of the lazy
and the spiritually malnourished. Do not let it happen to you &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(by all means, please let it happen to this man&amp;#39;s readers.)&lt;/span&gt;.
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Now is the time. The coming year will slide by rather quickly
and the feeling of urgent change and upheaval will only build and it
doesn&amp;#39;t really matter if it&amp;#39;s Hillary or Obama or Edwards leading the
shift&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt; (it does, but do we expect him to make sense at this point?)&lt;/span&gt;, because no matter who gets the nod, they will require — from me,
from you, from anyone who professes to care — a roiling tidal wave of
progressive momentum behind them to help them cleanse and haul away the
overwhelming mountain of moral fecal matter &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;(let&amp;#39;s not talk about morals, San Francisco.)&lt;/span&gt; Bush has left behind.
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mark your calendar. Set your ringtone. Take a deep breath, feel
the wave build, and then dive the hell in. Right now, it&amp;#39;s the only
option that really matters.&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;georgia md&quot; id=&quot;bodytext&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;Golly day.&amp;#160; I can not fathom how much these people hate George Bush.&amp;#160; One of the great things about the Republic is that if you don&amp;#39;t like who is in power you just have to wait them out.&amp;#160; These people act like Bush has voted himself Dictator for Life.&amp;#160; For six years it&amp;#39;s been nothing but criticism, insults and gloomy forecasts for his place in history.&amp;#160; Truth be told, he hasn&amp;#39;t done that bad a job.&amp;#160; Look at men like Buchanan and Pierce, who were unable or unwilling to do anything to avert the coming Civil War.&amp;#160; Bush can&amp;#39;t be faulted for doing &lt;em&gt;something &lt;/em&gt;in the face of the first great conflict of our century: that of radical Islam.&amp;#160; Better to try, make mistakes rather than sit back and do nothing, and be remembered for that&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #333333&quot;&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #333333&quot;&gt;It will be nice to finally stop hearing about how awful President Bush is, though.&amp;#160; Of course, I expect them to miss nary a beat and move on to blaming all the next administrations problems on the previous.&amp;#160; Kind of like Republicans do with Clinton.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;georgia md&quot; id=&quot;bodytext&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;
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            <description>    &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; font-family: arial&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: black; font-family: arial&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;&quot;&gt;SEVENTEEN WAYS TO BE A 
GOOD LIBERAL&lt;span style=&quot;color: #144692&quot;&gt; &lt;span style=&quot;color: #993399&quot;&gt;(with Scio&amp;#39;s comments in&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style=&quot;color: #8f42ad&quot;&gt;purple)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;1. &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;You have to be against capital 
punishment, but support abortion on&lt;br /&gt;
demand.&lt;/span&gt;&amp;#160; &lt;span style=&quot;color: #8f42ad&quot;&gt;Consistency is
important.&amp;#160; Capital punishment should be used judiciously, when
there are no better options.&amp;#160; Also, the dignity of the human
person must be maintained at all times.&amp;#160; But the same dignity
should be shown to children in utero.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;2. You have to 
believe that businesses create oppression and governments&lt;br /&gt;create 
prosperity.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;3. You have to believe that guns in the hands of 
law-abiding citizens are&lt;br /&gt;more of a threat than nuclear weapons technology in 
the hands of Iran, 
China&lt;br /&gt;and North 
Korea.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;4. You have to believe that 
there was no art before federal funding.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;5. &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;You have to believe 
that global temperatures are less affected by&lt;br /&gt;
cyclical changes in the earth&amp;#39;s 
climate and more affected by soccer moms&lt;br /&gt;
driving SUVs.&lt;/span&gt;&amp;#160; &lt;span style=&quot;color: #8f42ad&quot;&gt;I have made the point many times that our footprint on this planet is much smaller than our hubris likes to admit.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;7. 
You have to believe that the AIDS virus is spread by a lack of 
federal&lt;br /&gt;funding.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;8. &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;You have to believe that the same teacher 
who can&amp;#39;t teach 4th-graders how&lt;br /&gt;
to read is somehow qualified to teach those 
same kids about sex.&lt;/span&gt;&amp;#160; &lt;span style=&quot;color: #8f42ad&quot;&gt;Yes!&amp;#160; Nobody ever quite makes this connection.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;9. You have to believe that hunters don&amp;#39;t care 
about nature, but PETA&lt;br /&gt;activists do.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;10. &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;You have to believe 
that self-esteem is more important than actually&lt;br /&gt;
doing something to earn 
it&lt;/span&gt;.&amp;#160; &lt;span style=&quot;color: #8f42ad&quot;&gt;I have
strong feelings about this one.&amp;#160; I have always thought that people
gave me too much praise for doing things that weren&amp;#39;t overly
exceptional.&amp;#160; Being a polite and well-mannered person (in public)
shouldn&amp;#39;t be exceptional, it should be expected.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;11. You have to believe the NRA is bad because it supports 
certain parts of&lt;br /&gt;the Constitution, while the ACLU is good because it supports 
certain parts&lt;br /&gt;of the Constitution.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;12. You have to believe that 
taxes are too low, but ATM fees are too high.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;13. You have to 
believe that Margaret Sanger and Gloria Steinem are more&lt;br /&gt;important to 
American history than Thomas Jefferson, George Washington, or&lt;br /&gt;Abraham 
Lincoln.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;14. You have to believe that standardized tests are 
racist, but racial&lt;br /&gt;quotas and set-asides are not.&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;15. &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;You have 
to believe that the only reason socialism hasn&amp;#39;t worked&lt;br /&gt;
anywhere it&amp;#39;s been 
tried is because the right people haven&amp;#39;t been in charge.&lt;/span&gt;&amp;#160; &lt;span style=&quot;color: #8f42ad&quot;&gt;This
is probably true.&amp;#160; The only way that Socialism might work is in
small groups with no cohesive identity beyond the village level.&amp;#160;
When Hilldawg said it takes a village, she was setting a threshold for
maximum occupancy in a socialist system.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;16. &lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff0000&quot;&gt;You 
have to believe that homosexual parades displaying drag queens 
and&lt;br /&gt;
transvestites should be constitutionally protected, and manger scenes 
at&lt;br /&gt;
Christmas should be illegal&lt;/span&gt;.&amp;#160; &lt;span style=&quot;color: #8f42ad&quot;&gt;Game,
set, match.&amp;#160; The solution to this problem is that nobody does
anything with public funds, licensing, or facilities whatsoever.&amp;#160;
No parades, no art, no manger scenes, no music, no debates, no county
fairs.&amp;#160; I&amp;#39;m willing to tolerate (not condone, mind you) public
homosexual lechery&lt;span style=&quot;color: black&quot;&gt; &lt;span style=&quot;color: #8f42ad&quot;&gt;if their hounds at the ACLU will let me set up an Infant Jesus by city hall in my primarily Christian town.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;#160;&lt;br /&gt;17. You have to believe that 
this message is a part of a vast, 
right-wing&lt;br /&gt;conspiracy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #8f42ad&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;
Are you laughing yet?&lt;br /&gt;
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            <description>    &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 0pt; line-height: 14.4pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Defining Marriage Down . . . &lt;br /&gt;is no way to save it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;by David Blankenhorn &lt;br /&gt;04/02/2007, Volume 012, Issue 28 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://rs6.net/tn.jsp?t=ueysb5bab.0.xyuub5bab.yhccozaab.3110&amp;amp;ts=S0233&amp;amp;p=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.weeklystandard.com%2FContent%2FPublic%2FArticles%2F000%2F000%2F013%2F451noxve.asp&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/013/451noxve.asp&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 10pt; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial;&quot;&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Does
permitting same-sex marriage weaken marriage as a social institution?
Or does extending to gay and lesbian couples the right to marry have
little or no effect on marriage overall? Scholars and commentators have
expended much effort trying in vain to wring proof of causation from
the data--all the while ignoring the meaning of some simple
correlations that the numbers do indubitably show. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Much
of the disagreement among scholars centers on how to interpret trends
in the Netherlands and Scandinavia. Stanley Kurtz has argued, in this
magazine and elsewhere, that the adoption of gay marriage or same-sex
civil unions in those countries has significantly weakened customary
marriage, already eroded by easy divorce and stigma-free cohabitation. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;William
Eskridge, a Yale Law School professor, and Darren R. Spedale, an
attorney, beg to differ. In Gay Marriage: For Better or for Worse?, a
book-length reply to Kurtz, they insist that Kurtz does not prove that
gay marriage is causing anything in those nations; that Nordic marriage
overall appears to be healthier than Kurtz allows; and that even if
marriage is declining in that part of the world, &amp;quot;the question remains
whether that phenomenon is a lamentable development.&amp;quot; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Eskridge
and Spedale want it both ways. For them, there is no proof that
marriage has weakened, but if there were it wouldn&amp;#39;t be a problem. For
people who care about marriage, this perspective inspires no
confidence. Eskridge and Spedale do score one important point, however.
Neither Kurtz nor anyone else can scientifically prove that allowing
gay marriage causes the institution of marriage to get weaker.
Correlation does not imply causation. The relation between two
correlated phenomena may be causal, or it may be random, or it may
reflect some deeper cause producing both. Even if you could show that
every last person in North Carolina eats barbecue, you would not have
established that eating barbecue is a result of taking up residence in
North Carolina. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;When
it comes to the health of marriage as an institution and the legal
status of same-sex unions, there is much to be gained from giving up
the search for causation and studying some recurring patterns in the
data, as I did for my book The Future of Marriage. It turns out that
certain clusters of beliefs about and attitudes toward marriage
consistently correlate with certain institutional arrangements. The
correlations crop up in a large number of countries and recur in data
drawn from different surveys of opinion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Take
the International Social Survey Programme (ISSP), a collaborative
effort of universities in over 40 countries. It interviewed about
50,000 adults in 35 countries in 2002. What is useful for our purposes
is that respondents were asked whether they agreed or disagreed with
six statements that directly relate to marriage as an institution: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;1. Married people are generally happier than unmarried people. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;2. People who want children ought to get married. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;3. One parent can bring up a child as well as two parents together. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;4. It is all right for a couple to live together without intending to get married. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;5. Divorce is usually the best solution when a couple can&amp;#39;t seem to work out their marriage problems. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;6. The main purpose of marriage these days is to have children. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Let&amp;#39;s
stipulate that for statements one, two, and six, an &amp;quot;agree&amp;quot; answer
indicates support for traditional marriage as an authoritative
institution. Similarly, for statements three, four, and five, let&amp;#39;s
stipulate that agreement indicates a lack of support, or less support,
for traditional marriage. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Then
divide the countries surveyed into four categories: those that permit
same-sex marriage; those that permit same-sex civil unions (but not
same-sex marriage); those in which some regions permit same-sex
marriage; and those that do not legally recognize same-sex unions. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;The
correlations are strong. Support for marriage is by far the weakest in
countries with same-sex marriage. The countries with marriage-like
civil unions show significantly more support for marriage. The two
countries with only regional recognition of gay marriage (Australia and
the United States) do better still on these support-for-marriage
measurements, and those without either gay marriage or marriage-like
civil unions do best of all. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;In
some instances, the differences are quite large. For example, people in
nations with gay marriage are less than half as likely as people in
nations without gay unions to say that married people are happier.
Perhaps most important, they are significantly less likely to say that
people who want children ought to get married (38 percent vs. 60
percent). They are also significantly more likely to say that
cohabiting without intending to marry is all right (83 percent vs. 50
percent), and are somewhat more likely to say that divorce is usually
the best solution to marital problems. Respondents in the countries
with gay marriage are significantly more likely than those in Australia
and the United States to say that divorce is usually the best solution.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;A
similar exercise using data from a different survey yields similar
results. The World Values Survey, based in Stockholm, Sweden,
periodically interviews nationally representative samples of the
publics of some 80 countries on six continents--over 100,000 people in
all--on a range of issues. It contains three statements directly
related to marriage as an institution: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;1. A child needs a home with both a father and a mother to grow up happily. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;2. It is all right for a woman to want a child but not a stable relationship with a man.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;3. Marriage is an outdated institution. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Again
grouping the countries according to the legal status of same-sex
unions, the data from the 1999-2001 wave of interviews yield a clear
pattern. Support for marriage as an institution is weakest in those
countries with same-sex marriage. Countries with same-sex civil unions
show more support, and countries with regional recognition show still
more. By significant margins, support for marriage is highest in
countries that extend no legal recognition to same-sex unions. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;So
what of it? Granted that these correlations may or may not reflect
causation, what exactly can be said about the fact that certain values
and attitudes and legal arrangements tend to cluster? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Here&amp;#39;s
an analogy. Find some teenagers who smoke, and you can confidently
predict that they are more likely to drink than their nonsmoking peers.
Why? Because teen smoking and drinking tend to hang together. What&amp;#39;s
more, teens who engage in either of these activities are also more
likely than nonsmokers or nondrinkers to engage in other risky
behaviors, such as skipping school, getting insufficient sleep, and
forming friendships with peers who get into trouble. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Because
these behaviors correlate and tend to reinforce one another, it is
virtually impossible for the researcher to pull out any one from the
cluster and determine that it alone is causing or is likely to cause
some personal or (even harder to measure) social result. All that can
be said for sure is that these things go together. To the degree
possible, parents hope that their children can avoid all of them, the
entire syndrome--drinking, smoking, skipping school, missing sleep, and
making friends with other children who get into trouble--in part
because each of them increases exposure to the others. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;It&amp;#39;s
the same with marriage. Certain trends in values and attitudes tend to
cluster with each other and with certain trends in behavior. A rise in
unwed childbearing goes hand in hand with a weakening of the belief
that people who want to have children should get married. High divorce
rates are encountered where the belief in marital permanence is low.
More one-parent homes are found where the belief that children need
both a father and a mother is weaker. A rise in nonmarital cohabitation
is linked at least partly to the belief that marriage as an institution
is outmoded. The legal endorsement of gay marriage occurs where the
belief prevails that marriage itself should be redefined as a private
personal relationship. And all of these marriage-weakening attitudes
and behaviors are linked. Around the world, the surveys show, these
things go together. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Eskridge
and Spedale are right. We cannot demonstrate statistically what exactly
causes what, or what is likely to have what consequences in the future.
But we do see in country after country that these phenomena form a
pattern that recurs. They are mutually reinforcing. Socially, an
advance for any of them is likely to be an advance for all of them. An
individual who tends to accept any one or two of them probably accepts
the others as well. And as a political and strategic matter, anyone who
is fighting for any one of them should--almost certainly already
does--support all of them, since a victory for any of them clearly
coincides with the advance of the others. Which is why, for example,
people who have devoted much of their professional lives to attacking
marriage as an institution almost always favor gay marriage. These
things do go together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Inevitably,
the pattern discernible in the statistics is borne out in the
statements of the activists. Many of those who most vigorously champion
same-sex marriage say that they do so precisely in the hope of
dethroning once and for all the traditional &amp;quot;conjugal institution.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;That
phrase comes from Judith Stacey, professor of sociology at New York
University and a major expert witness testifying in courts and
elsewhere for gay marriage. She views the fight for same-sex marriage
as the &amp;quot;vanguard site&amp;quot; for rebuilding family forms. The author of
journal articles like &amp;quot;Good Riddance to &amp;#39;The Family,&amp;#39;&amp;quot; she argues
forthrightly that &amp;quot;if we begin to value the meaning and quality of
intimate bonds over their customary forms, there are few limits to the
kinds of marriage and kinship patterns people might wish to devise.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Similarly,
David L. Chambers, a law professor at the University of Michigan widely
published on family issues, favors gay marriage for itself but also
because it would likely &amp;quot;make society receptive to the further
evolution of the law.&amp;quot; What kind of evolution? He writes, &amp;quot;If the
deeply entrenched paradigm we are challenging is the romantically
linked man-woman couple, we should respect the similar claims made
against the hegemony of the two-person unit and against the romantic
foundations of marriage.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Examples
could be multiplied--the recently deceased Ellen Willis, professor of
journalism at NYU and head of its Center for Cultural Reporting and
Criticism, expressed the hope that gay marriage would &amp;quot;introduce an
implicit revolt against the institution into its very heart, further
promoting the democratization and secularization of personal and sexual
life&amp;quot;--but they can only illustrate the point already established by
the large-scale international comparisons: Empirically speaking, gay
marriage goes along with the erosion, not the shoring up, of the
institution of marriage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;These
facts have two implications. First, to the degree that it makes any
sense to oppose gay marriage, it makes sense only if one also opposes
with equal clarity and intensity the other main trends pushing our
society toward postinstitutional marriage. After all, the big idea is
not to stop gay marriage. The big idea is to stop the erosion of
society&amp;#39;s most pro-child institution. Gay marriage is only one facet of
the larger threat to the institution. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Similarly,
it&amp;#39;s time to recognize that the beliefs about marriage that correlate
with the push for gay marriage do not exist in splendid isolation,
unrelated to marriage&amp;#39;s overall institutional prospects. Nor do those
values have anything to do with strengthening the institution,
notwithstanding the much-publicized but undocumented claims to the
contrary from those making the &amp;quot;conservative case&amp;quot; for gay marriage. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;Instead,
the deep logic of same-sex marriage is clearly consistent with what
scholars call deinstitutionalization--the overturning or weakening of
all of the customary forms of marriage, and the dramatic shrinking of
marriage&amp;#39;s public meaning and institutional authority. Does
deinstitutionalization necessarily require gay marriage? Apparently
not. For decades heterosexuals have been doing a fine job on that front
all by themselves. But gay marriage clearly presupposes and reinforces
deinstitutionalization. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;By
itself, the &amp;quot;conservative case&amp;quot; for gay marriage might be attractive.
It would be gratifying to extend the benefits of marriage to same-sex
couples--if gay marriage and marriage renewal somehow fit together. But
they do not. As individuals and as a society, we can strive to maintain
and strengthen marriage as a primary social institution and society&amp;#39;s
best welfare plan for children (some would say for men and women too).
Or we can strive to implement same-sex marriage. But unless we are
prepared to tear down with one hand what we are building up with the
other, we cannot do both.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: small; color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;em&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&amp;#160;&lt;/div&gt;David Blankenhorn is president of the New York-based Institute for American Values and the author of &lt;/em&gt;The Future of Marriage &lt;em&gt;(Encounter Books).&amp;#160; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
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            <pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2007 15:51:01 -0700</pubDate>         
            
            <description>    &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/03/27/AR2007032700463_pf.html&quot;&gt;Senatus dementis est.&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#160; 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;
I mean really.&amp;#160; You count on these people to be deliberate and
somewhat aloof from the whims of the populace.&amp;#160; The House should
be where this really populist legislation flares up and fizzles out
once &lt;em&gt;Heroes&lt;/em&gt; comes on or the clock strikes 4:20.&amp;#160; But no,
it would appear that we have a sufficient number of pandering oldsters
in this august body to allow for a completely stupid piece of
legislation to pass.&lt;br /&gt;
So they want our troops out by March 2008?&amp;#160; Wonderful!&amp;#160; Now
the terrorists have a goal to meet and can finally update their
planners:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;em&gt;March 2008 -- Celebrate American withdrawal.&amp;#160; Fire AK-47.&amp;#160; Lunch with Kasim.&amp;#160; &lt;strong&gt;Makeovers!!!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The only consolation is that the &amp;quot;November Mandate&amp;quot; doesn&amp;#39;t give them enough votes to overturn a veto.&lt;br /&gt;
So, what have the Democrats gained here?&amp;#160; Will their base finally
shut up?&amp;#160; Can their barely attained plurality possibly translate
into anything but deadlock on all but the safest of legislation?&lt;br /&gt;
Or will the Republicans vote against the&lt;em&gt; Kitten-Puppy Eye Gouging Regulation Act?&lt;/em&gt;&amp;#160;
It would be politically unpopular, but the last thing any thinking
person wants is Big Government in their animal torture.&amp;#160; Over &lt;a href=&quot;http://gadgets.elliottback.com/wp-content/_cute%20kitten.jpg&quot;&gt;Mr. Snuffles&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#39;s dead body, Pelosi.&lt;br /&gt;
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            <description>    &lt;p&gt;I committed one of the classic blunders today.&amp;#160; I got into a protracted theological discussion with a coworker.&amp;#160; 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;
Now, it should be known that I am a practicing Catholic.&amp;#160; This
means that I hold certain views that are radically counter
cultural.&amp;#160; My beliefs about homosexuality, premarital sex, birth
control,&amp;#160; the sanctity of marriage, Christian unity, and obedience
to the Church are wildly out of step with most thinking people of my
generation.&amp;#160; I believe the prevailing notion is that I am entitled
to my beliefs, but I must be tolerant of those who don&amp;#39;t believe as I
do.&amp;#160; Even among those who approach the same ends there is a great
difference in some cases.&amp;#160; Sure, a person may believe that
homosexuality is wrong, with which I agree, but he might couch it in
hateful terms (God Hates Fags, etc.) which authentic Christian teaching
abhors.&amp;#160; No, it is a Christian&amp;#39;s duty to &lt;strong&gt;charitably&lt;/strong&gt; correct when necessary.&amp;#160; 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;
The coworker I spoke with is of the generation known as X.&amp;#160;&amp;#160;
A self described hippie, she didn&amp;#39;t accept the idea that there could
possibly be absolute truth.&amp;#160; 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;
We were discussing homosexuality, and I was attempting to argue the
wrongness of it from a Christian standpoint.&amp;#160; This is incredibly
difficult to do in these days without being labelled a bigot.&amp;#160; But
the problem with most of the people born after the 1970s is that we
have been presented with this vision of the world in which everything
is ok as long as it doesn&amp;#39;t hurt somebody else.&amp;#160; What&amp;#39;s right for
one may not be right for some, and all that garbage.&amp;#160; This
philosophy of relativism, which my pope addressed when he was still a
cardinal, has had subtle and damaging effects.&amp;#160; My coworker was
completely unable to relate to my points, because to her mind it was
perfectly alright for me to believe what I believe and for another
person to believe what they did.
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;
I realized this after about twenty minutes, and turned the discussion
to relativism and the necessity of absolute truth.&amp;#160; She replied,
&amp;quot;There is no absolute truth.&amp;quot;
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;
Gotcha.&amp;#160; I informed her that she had just entered into a logical
paradox, for she had claimed, absolutely, there to be no absolute
truth.&amp;#160; This point seemed to give her momentary pause, but
unfortunately her commitment to debate did not survive.&amp;#160; Or
perhaps she was bored.&amp;#160; I sometimes think that I am a tedious
speaker.
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;
The point I&amp;#39;m trying to make is that absolute truth has to exist, and
if we understand that then it follows that one belief will be right and
another wrong.&amp;#160; In my more pessimistic moments, I tend to think
that people embrace this relativism because it absolves them of any
responsibility for putting extra effort into their own lives.&amp;#160; 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;
I learned long ago that tolerance is not a virtue.&amp;#160; In essence, it
is the moral equivalent of a lazy parent who will not discipline their
children.&amp;#160; You know the type:&amp;#160; Junior knocks over a display
in the grocery store and calls Grandma a fatso.&amp;#160; Mom or Dad may
offer a few words of correction, but don&amp;#39;t go so far as to tell the
child he is wrong.&amp;#160; And of course he isn&amp;#39;t punished.&amp;#160; Should
someone outside the nuclear family admonish the child, he is
immediately branded an interloper who has no business correcting
someone else&amp;#39;s child.&amp;#160; You follow me, I&amp;#39;m sure.&amp;#160; Many people
who are Christians are caught up in the relativism of our times.&amp;#160;
The most obvious example of this is when someone will focus only on God
as a loving Father who never rejects anybody.&amp;#160; This is true, but
Catholics understand that it is humanity which rejects God, not the
other way around.&amp;#160; The God of Love is also a God of Justice.&amp;#160;
Just as a good parent will set ground rules for their child, so has a
loving God provided us with a framework of morals in which to work.&lt;br /&gt;
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